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Sep 11, 2012, 08:58 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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First, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY --- YOU ARE OUR HERO!!!
Try not to argue with her. That isn't going to you OR her any good at all. if she feels crummy about herself, just sympathize with her and let her know that you're sure it will get better, but you love her just the way she is. Tell her you know that she is upset about it, but it doesn't make any differrence to you -- just like you're doing right now.
Is there ANY way you can call her therapist? You need some tips & strategy on how to handle her when she's like this. She seems to get into crisis mode, and I would hate to give you the wrong advice -- I think her therapist would be the one to talk to, and if there is ANY way to call him, I'd do it. I know it would be difficult for you -- if you can give me his name and location, perhaps I can look up his number for you so you don't have to ask your wife and make HER suspicious. I'd be happy to do it, if you think you could call him. Just let me know and I'll do it.  Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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