Thread: I blew it!
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Old Sep 11, 2012, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Brightheart View Post
Rainbow, I sense a younger part of you who is screaming out right now. I do think it's important that she has a voice too. I can totally relate with feeling frustrated when you want something and aren't getting it. All of us have needs and limitations can be very tough. Can you find a way to comfort this part of yourself? I'm listening and I hear her. (((Gentle hugs to all your parts)))
Yes, it's a younger part because my T didn't let those parts talk today. They have in the past but the somatic experiencing is all about my body. I spent the first half of the session talking about the DBT group and my H, so I was "adult" there. I have to remember how to comfort my own child parts. I forgot! I didn't use DBT skills yet either, except for one. Opposite action, I think it's called. I had somewhere to go after the session, and I didn't feel like going at all, but I did. I couldn't go to the lake, though. I chose something that was with a group of women near my house, not the lake. I am doing the butterfly hug--when I stop typing. T taught me that from the EMDR book.

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