I've done an ungodly amount of soul searching to try to figure out why she is negligent and I cannot come up with an acceptable reason. The only illness that she suffers from is Diabetes and personally, I cannot see a connection between it and her actions or lack thereof.

My concern with talking it out with her is that in the past whenever there has been an issue that we've (my husband and I) brought to her attention she has chosen to take the nasty, "female dog" attitude. At one point in time my husband chose to approach her with regards to something that she had done and told her that it hurt his feelings that she did whatever it was that she did and she chose to make a mockery out of us and out of what he said.

My other concern is that if nothing is said and if we chose to distance ourselves/our daughter from her she'll only get nastier!

Let me know what you think!