Hi Inkbot
You kids psychologist had good advice. I definatly wouldn't have visits with the kids while this neighbor of yours is in the same building. I dont think you have to feel as though you have to move!!! This is what I would do. I. write a note like the doc said and tell him you no longer want him to contact you and tell him you fell like it's harrassment. In the letter tell him if it continues you will be notifying the police. 2. I would file a police report. 3. Tell the landlord. You shouldn't and dont have to put up with it. Just curious Inkblot, did you date him earlier? Keep in touch. I often think about you and this problem

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