Perna, I don't think you understand this was an example and how I read it this was just one of many thing where the OP doesn't get listened to. Instead of saying WHY didn't you "just" do this and that, do you have any advice how to deal with the issue as a whole?

I know for a fact some people just run me over. I have to really protect myself against them, because they will simply never learn to listen to me. Sometimes when confronted, they have even said they WILL not accept what I say nor will they respect me, because they feel they have some kind of innate right treating me the way they prefer.