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Leed · Sep 12, 2012, 02:14 PM

Oh boy. I hope your husband isn't PHYSICALLY abusive, because if he is, you're going to get a real beating! You shouldn't have done that sweetie. Does he have a newer car? I hope not for your sake.

I know you're frustrated and hurt, honey. I do understand. And I know ALL about emotional and mental abuse. I was abused like that for 26 years, so I'm no stranger to that.

But it could be that your husband doesn't understand your disease well enough to know WHAT upsets you or HOW things upset you. Perhaps he's trying to help but instead he makes things worse. He just might not know what to do. He's not a mind-reader.

Do you think that the two of you could talk to your therapist or perhaps a couples counselor? Something needs to be done before your marriage breaks up. You need to at least TRY EVERYTHING so you can say that at least you did your very best to save the marriage. Don't give up. And apologize ALOT for what you did to his car!!! Tell him you didn't mean to do it, but you were in a rage.

I wish you the very best sweetie. God bless you and please let us know what happens, will you? I hope you do. Hugs, Lee