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Old Sep 12, 2012, 03:25 PM
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The trouble is there are about 100 people out there willing to take your job expecially in the hard times we are having .Unfortunately the manager has a job to do, and even though you have anxiety he does not have to work with you.It might be in your best interest to find a job that fits you better...one that has less anxiety. Some large companies will work with their employees(some places have unions), but a lot of the smaller companies, and restuarants, fast food chains, have so many people in line waitng for a job that unfortunately you are easily replaced.

I know this is not fair but its the way things are. When I worked for the State of Florida they gave me a specal office chair for my back. I could also take family medical leave when I was in the hospital, but when that was over I had to be ready and willing and able to perform my job. Note, I also suffered with panic attacks during some of that time. Believe it or not I would be interviewing a client, and having a panic attack at the same time. Because I had so many panic attacks I was able to walk thru them, and learn how to breathe. It takes practice trust me!!!

I wish my answer was better, but today its lucky to have a job anymore. There are so many people without work!
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