i want to congratulate you on breaking your silence.. i too recently told someone about my abuse... it seems devastating, but i want to assure you that there is indeed a light at the end of the tunnel!! The Courage To Heal is truly a wonderful resource and i strongly urge you to seek counceling! i don't know what i would do without mine!! you are not alone!!! and you will survive!!! you already have! and you are the only one who can decide if you should confront your abuser... don't let anyone push you into something that isn't right for you... after all, who's healing journey is this??? stay strong!!! and get support!! you're worth it!