Is that we do not immediatly make judgements based on appearance, which all humans do to some extent (some worse than others)

i like that we get to know each other first, then sometimes we see a pic, and it shocks us because the person on the other end looks nothing like we would have expected them to.

I think its a good kind of shock to the mind and makes you think about why we pass these judgements or, to be less harsh, why we make these assumptions sometimes about those around us.