Ok, at my work in the call center i'm on a team and we sit together. A few of us lots of the time eat lunch together when we are allowed to and we are pretty close. One lady's brother died in June of a suspicious drowning she found out on her way to work. My brother died in July of a suspicious suicide (my boyfriend came and got me from work to tell me (wouldn't tell me until I was sitting in the car)). The youngest one of us, her little brother died last night from a seizure when their dad put him on his back and he choked. Her husband came and got her in the middle of our shift. Someone at work mentioned it was like a curse or bad luck. I don't believe in any of that. The best that I can figure is God put us together because we can understand what one another us going through and have compassion and support each other. That's the only way I can make sense of it.