You know, I didn't think of it like that. Gay men are still men. Straight men are still men. Men are men, no matter what they enjoy.

And I'll take you up on those websites. Go ahead and PM me their URL's. I'd love to check them out.

And I guess I tell people because maybe I'm trying to understand why I like this. It's just awkward to me though because I grew up with a very vanilla mindset and I came to accept that things are either this way or that way. And that this is the standard and there is no other acceptable way of the order of things.