Exactly. It's all about perspective.

Online here and the website is the only place where I feel relatively safe to talk about my fetishes. I don't have a lot of friends, but I do let my bff know about what's going on with me because I know she won't judge and we talk about everything with each other even if we don't always agree.

Yeah, I'm not full vanilla, but I'm not full kinky either. I'm not even big on BDSM. It really all depends on your preferences and how you view things. An-l may or may not be kinky to you, but is to some. Don't let others persuade you to do or not do things, just do what feels right to you.