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Sep 13, 2012, 05:12 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I agree with Sesame. You're very lucky you didn't go ahead and marry this jerk. If he was cheating on you when you were dating, he would cheat on you when you were married. And he will probably cheat on THIS woman too. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
Don't obsess about getting an apology, because you're NOT going to get one. He's not that kind of guy who is sensitive enough to care about your feelings. So forget the apology. And DO NOT harass them, as that will only get you into legal problems. You just need to chalk this up to a lesson learned.
Move on now with your new guy. You say he's great -- well don't screw it up with these feelings of hatred for your ex. If youi keep this resentment against your ex, then your new relationship will just go down the tubes and your fiance' will walk away. You've got to let go. REmember this: resentment is the poison I take to kill you. That's what you're doing -- you're killing yourself with this resentment. It's eating you up! So let it go, and move on with your new guy. And have a happy life!
God bless and I wish you the very best. Hugs, Lee 
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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