First off...stay away from T's daughter's FB page. You have no right to that.

I am really sorry it hurts you so badly, but T's are professionals that we have hired, not our besties or our parents. It can't ever be a bf relationship. Seriously, I get that it hurts tremendously, but this is something you really need to work thru with T. It doesn't mean that your T doesn't care about you, I have people that I care tremendously about, but my children would still come first. I hope that you find a relationship that you are absolutely number one with, you deserve that.