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Old Sep 13, 2012, 12:24 PM
Edpsy77 Edpsy77 is offline
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Originally Posted by siempre nada View Post
Is it strange that at this point in my life (I'm 20) that I would like to have casual sex with a stranger? I've never been in a relationship, been kissed or any of that, and I feel like my anxiety would get in the way of building a "proper" relationship. Relationships are complicated and messy, I just want to experience a kiss and being held and sex with another woman. I don't know if I should seek this or even how to go about it in a safe way. I just feel like anyone willing to hook up with a stranger would be at much higher risk for an STD. How would you go about arranging something like this?
First off, I would suggest that you do not attempt to find casual sex with a stranger. It seems to me that you want to have a relationship and you may be hurt when the woman may not be interested in such a thing even if you had sex with her. Contrary to popular belief, there are women who just want to have casual sex. Lastly, you can risk an STD.

I sure hope people are not going to label you into 'the guy's can just want to have sex stereotype" and claim simply because your are a guy, you want to have casual sex. They should read your comments no differently than how they would read comments made by a woman with ulterior motive in regards to casual sex.