MYSELF has described it so elequently, but if I might add, as I have moved on, when I look back to what happened, it is like it is a movie and when I remind myself that that was me, it doesn't seem possible. As I've gone through the process of forgiving myself (and my abuser), some of the episodes are hard to recall. As a person moves on, like Myself has demonstrated, your soul begins to heal as it creates new and wonderful memories to focus on.