When i first replied to this post i was trying to suggest ways in which people who are bisexual could deal with their urges - just because you're in a relationship with a man or a woman it doesn't mean you don't fantasize about doing things with other men or women (well i know i do) - straight people do this too. It doesn't mean you wish to be unfaithful. I think theres been a lot of misunderstanding in this thread. Im sorry if i contributed to this.