I hear ya, I was always tense, nervouse, ect for soo soo sooooo long until my bf, with him I feel safe, the others nope. It's sometimes are to forgive, some people can do it, others cannot, and that's their choice, i've never forgiven, but I confronted my ex, and he told me that he doesn't remember... yeah right.

Definatly pick up that book, I can relate to it so well, I think I Gotta re-read it again but that's ok.

Take care.

<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>

<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>

<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>