Exactly. "Which dress do you want? No, you don't want THAT dress, you want THIS one." which ice cream flavor. which tv show. which anything.

I remember my mother once asking me at a holiday dinner at my aunt's, whose spaghetti sauce I liked best, my mom's or my aunt's? I figured I better answer my mom's, right? Wrong! She slaps me upside the head, "You don't got no manners, you're supposed to say your aunt's!" I made sure NEVER to sit next to my mother at a holiday dinner again. emily post she wasn't.