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This is, first and foremost, a self-help support community. That means if your message (post or PM) isn't about offering support to another person or asking for it, it's potentially not appropriate for our community.

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I am soooooo glad you included PM's... because it is important that the pm's be supportive too and not used in a way to hurt or vent or strike out at folks in private.......