I quibble with the term hateful.
The thing the woman I see reacted to was when I said she had asked a stupid and mocking question. A statement I thought would not be bothersome at all (it ended up she was trying to be funny by asking the question ) (she failed). This lead to the worst thing I think I have said to the woman which was she should stop trying to be funny and that she is not as funny as she thinks she is. I don't really consider that hateful as such, but I would not like it said to me. I had tried more subtle ways of getting her to stop to no avail. I do think what I said was true, and I did need her to stop doing it.
Last edited by stopdog; Sep 14, 2012 at 12:26 PM.
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