Hi Shadow......Ok, hearing this makes me seriously go crazy. There is no place in this world for judging someone else's struggles....none. I am so sorry that you have felt "judged" in that way. (((Big Hug))). God knows I know when you're suffering from all the hell that is depression it can be awfully hard to hold on to any perspective, but in my opinion anyone who would do so has serious problems of their own. Perhaps, though.....unlike you....they are not emotionally evolved enough to even recognize that....and sadly, they may never. You are a dear, brave person who fights for your survival, while at the same time always extending kindness to others, and no one has the right to hold you up to some kind of stupid "scale" of troubles! Sending warm thoughts ~whimsy