Well I have been in the same situtation, with cold heartless therapist, heck i even od'ed in his officeby taking a 100 pills of bayer asprin while he ignored me and talked to some else on the phone.

Although he was a jerk and your t sunds like a jerk also, think about this....always make sure you are the priority, you are safe and you keep looking for a t who can be there for you.

Also I found from my experience of od'ing in from of my t was a sign that i was trying to get his attention and he was ignoring me and giving me hints to go some else.

Your t is being honest, he is telling u that you need more help then what he can offer. You are a human being you deserve to have you needs met. See your medical doc, then look in your local professional psych association for profiles of who is out there to give treatments