hello, I have been in a crazy relationship for over 4 yrs now. I love him very much but can't seem to understand why we have so many problems. I know he loves me (at least he seems too) we get into a argument & don't speak for a few days and here he comes back or I contact him..the problem I have with him is...he says he loves me and when its good its good but then wham ..we have a disagreement and he clams up ,doesnt speak to me and then when we do speak he doesnt take blame for anything he did .sometimes he goes about 2 weeks with no contact and then out of the blue he will contact me.I'm so confused as to what to do..sometimes I want to give up ! Then sometimes I want to make it work...I havent seen him online in a few days ..I wonder sometimes if he doesnt have someone else and using another screen name..I don't believe for one second he hurts the way I do or he would try to work it out while its happening and not wait a few weeks or days to contact me ...please help me ..what do you think is going on ...I admit when Im wrong but he just wont give at all...he will sit there sometimes and wont say a word it makes me feel uncomfortable ..am I a fool to believe he loves me? please help