Well, you know we're always here.

It would be great if you could talk to a therapist about it, for sure, but I certainly understand that time and money are factors. At any rate, as long as you don't overdo it (ie don't take on anything...er, you can't handle, so to speak. I'm sorry if the wording was blunt. I struggled with how to phrase that. ), I'd say this isn't anything to worry about. It's certainly not an indicator of you being "less of a man" or anything like that.