hateful's not really part of who i am, so i haven't said anything hateful to t. (in my last job, i got screamed at/yelled at/cussed out all manner of vitriol spewed at me through my headset all day every day for 4 years.... this is the job i just quit [finally!]) I've had enough hateful speech thrown at me to last a lifetime, and am now physically unable to throw it at anyone else.