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Old Aug 02, 2006, 03:54 AM
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I, also hope that you arent pregnant. I've been in this same spot a few times this past year. I'm 17, btw. So when was this encounter, just within the past week? You surely wouldnt be experiencing symptoms THIS soon. No matter how thin you are.

Okay, I've never wanted kids, so it might be different between you and me but have you thought about if you're financially stable for a kid? Are you mentally and emotionally stable for this? Would your family be accepting of this? I know girls from high school that have been put out of their house for this exact reason. Do you think you are ready to put someone else's needs before yours, 24 hours a day, every day, for 18 years? Cause I've never wanted kids, I dont really understand your happiness, but please just look at the realistic side of things.

You said you work, does your job pay enough to be able to afford baby things? Babysitters, since you'll have to actually work to get the money for that stuff.

And from what you described, if this was in the past few days, I really highly doubt that you are pregnant. I agree with fayerody with using condoms/birth control, and that your life will be over. Dont you go to school, to balance school, work, AND a baby? What about college, dont you hope for something more than this?

But thats all I have to say, take it for what its worth..keep us updated..
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