[quote=farmergirl;2573796]You have never had a sincere conversation with someone expressing your feelings without resorting to hatefulness?
well not if what I am feeling is hate, no. I thought the question was, what is the most hateful thing you said to T?

I should add
** I don't hate my T, and never have. Angry, welll yes, frustrated, def. but HATE, certainly not.

** Not that it comes up hardly, but I don't have conversations with people I feel hatefuless toward. I withdraw - and then work hard on getting out of the hateful feelings, however long it takes. I have no room for that in my life.