Ok, hmmm. I always was made to have very short boy cuts growing up. Like real real short. My oldest sister had hair to her butt and my mom said one girl with long hair was enough, and I had big ears that stick out, still do a little.

I have a complex about my body.. ya big shocker haha. Short, real short 5 feet, small chest, and when my 12 year old daughter and I can swap clothes, no I don't feel like a women. I haven't ever had long hair, medium length, oh one time is was long, never a problem cutting it off tho before. I was a hirdresser, i was always comfortable chopping it up constantly.

My bf a while back told me I was getting old. I am 33, I didn't think I was that old, but he insisted that 33 is old. Seriously I tried to put that out of my head cause I know it's crap. I do. It's not even half my life hopefully. But this made me really doubt myself.... a LOT.

I think I need to go back to the drawing board on the self esteem things.