just wondering... how have other members felt about going into a new relationship with a tonne of baggage? For me this includes physical scars from SI all over my body as well as huge mental health issues. I am not currently looking for anyone, despite friends' best tries(!), but am not sure if I will even be able to find someone later on who can look past all the scars and emotional baggage? Is it a self-esteem thing; any advice?!