Hi Lee, my prayer are with you and your son. My next door neighbor, who I have known for several years son lives with her, and was in the hospital for months. One thing that she did was purchase a breathalyser. May seen a little harsh, and maybe you wont need it I hope. Lets see, Is he ready to quit? Well, I guess thats a stupid question. I know with me I got sick and tierd of being sick. What has gotten me though some really tuff times is my relationship with god.