Wish her luck in her life and get on with yours! Time is a-wasting! You are losing valuable time to date and learn new attitudes towards dating and towards women. It's time that you found your "true love" - someone who feels the same way about you that you feel for them! It's a wonderful feeling but it won't happen if you don't move on. Eight years is a long time. It's time to move on . . . NOW is that time! Your former crush is getting married. She is no longer available. Time to put her out of your head and find new love interests. Good luck!