He is probably a cluster b because that tends to underly toxic abusive people...but it doesn't matter in the end because he won't change. In fact, he doesn't think he has a problem and his treatment of you will only get worse.

I am sad for you - you do not deserve to be treated this way. He has abused you and that's not ok.

Cut all contact with him and work on rebuilding you. Get his voice out of your head by focusing on your truth, your talent and goodness. Waiting for him to change or see the light is a waste of time.