You mentioned church and it got me thinking....does your church have any sort of "compassionate service" leader or anything (just using the term from my own church) - someone who organizes meals and help at home and things like that when a member gets sick or has a baby or in some way needs extra help?? There've been times when I was sick or in the hospital and people brought my family meals and even came to clean my house the day before I got home from a hospitalization one time. Can you reach out to your church for help?