Noticed several newly DXed members have wanted to know somethings to help their loved ones understand what's going on with them and the Bipolar disorder.
Some of these pamphlets help. You can send for them or print out some info at that site.
My pdoc had pamphlets (BP kit) for patients and their loved ones to read, free in his waiting room.
It's an excellent organization, perhaps some of the stuff can help, along with other things.
Good luck