Oxymoron - I think you're being very rude. You are more than welcome to have your opinion. But she's not being "ignorant" if she is reaching out for help. She has demonstrated that she wants to be there for her son. And others have posted that are gay that it is normal for people to try to date the opposite sex to figure out what they want. Not all Christians are the right wing conservative folks on tv. The world isn't black and white, use your head.