You are doing the right thing Blue! You might get the jitters just before sending him. That's okay, your a caring mom so your supposed to. Just follow through for his best interest! The dealer won't be going away, and I live too far away to have a talk with him for you, so this is the best thing to do. You are strong, and just stay in that frame of mind until he is off. then it's okay to break down, but stay strong for now!