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Old Sep 15, 2012, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
The OP did ask, and the T denied it, said nothing was different. I am having flashbacks to my longterm T, who never owned up to anything, but this was back in the 80's, it was before they discovered "admitting you are wrong to the client is okay." Holes. Maybe the T's daughter coming home made the T realize she was treating the OP more like a daughter than a client? Not holding boundaries as well as she would ordinarily? Meeting her own needs instead of her client's? So when Miswimmy called her out on it, she didn't have an answer. It's not you, it's her. I think you just surprised her with the question. My T usually tells me he has to think about MY questions about what is actually happening in session, when I see it differently than he does. I don't argue with him, I just put the bug in his ear, and we pick it up later. I would just raise the topic with her again. Your participation here makes you a more sophisticated user of the "product". But the main thing you're going by are your feelings that something is different, and why should she discount those?
Thanks hankser...sorry must have read to fast.
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