Are you a member of any other online communities? If so, and you have a livejournal (http://www.livejournal.com), can I recommend a community to you? It's called vaginapagina, and you can find it at http://vaginapagina.livejournal.com/ . It is really intended to be a safe place where women can talk about those sorts of issues without judgement and it's a very, very active community - lots of women read it, and are supportive of each other.

You might want to check it out. I am glad my words were comforting for you. I think that that place could be a comfort to you as well, if you were interested in checking it out.