to be honest, theres another conflict surrounding us in the outside world, why bring it to a supportive community. these type of sites are few and far between, so lets keep it clean and all get along. tolerance is an important part of everyday life, and we are all grown-ups here, so we should all act like it. and show consideration to fellow members. we are all here for a reason, and that reason isnt to argue.we can do it if we try...in the time ive been signed onto this site i havent had any problems with anyone, and thats been after about 4/5 weeks, so it is possible. thats my rant finished hehe.