I have said a few shockers in my time. Mostly I say it to Ts who are either out for my money, or wasting everyone's time. I don't usually say it to them because I hate them as a person.... they are all faceless anonymouses to me so i dont usually know anything about them to hate them as a person.

I did give a very good lecture to a man who was the regional leader of a group I used to go to. He had no qualifications, only "life experience" to his position. As a result, he had no idea what the term "confrontation" means (in terms of therapeutic confrontation). There are rules to thereputic confrontation and he obviously didn't learn them because he was way too indignant and aggressive. And ofcourse I triggered as soon as he opened his mouth. And yeah it wasn't pretty after that. No violence or anything, it was all verbal, but by the time I left he was basically sh*tting bricks out of his mouth. I will not repeat what i said because in hindsight it was a bit harsh, although warranted. The consequence of this ofcourse, was that i cannot go to any of those groups anymore without travelling about 2 hours to get there (out of his catchment area) hahaha

Well, thats what happens when you tell a severely depressed person to "get up off your arse and do something for once".