i had this problem. i have a bf and wanted friends of any gender but i had horrible with guys who felt i should "give up my bf for them" yet they told me bluntly how unattractive i am and how they were using me as a backup buddy boy did i do the same thing in return!

they became stalkers and without my bf's help i took care of it myself! i have a bf when did i say i wanted a wide range of other boyfriends? they didn't wanna just friends and i thought hey maybe i could do some guy things to try a new avenue for myself well i was wrong. i was able to do some of that with my bf the only one i trust!

i knew girls who had guy friends and things seem to be fine as long as everybody knew their boundaries. i told these guys what i will not do or tolerate and of they didnt like it move on. it became a huge battle field telling me who the hell do u think u r? your nothing but a *****, stuck up, etc a whole slue of name calling under the sun!

everything i said and pointed out about them was true and caught them in lying and stepping over boundaries. they said you women and your damn boundaries i said that is why you men always end up going to either prison or jail when you overstep women's boundaries. i made it clear i see nothing in you as a potential bf oh wait i am unattractive so what's it to you right?

i hate when these fools dont take the hint i had to block all of them online. i would rather have gay men for friends they are fun to be around and i wont have to worry about them hitting on me or trying to get me in bed! i love having female friends my sisterhood but never again will i have a str8 guy as a friend i dont know what goes on in that screwed head of theirs!