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Leed · Sep 16, 2012 at 07:51 AM

Whoever blames you for "hypothetical" deeds of your brother is an idiot. You cannot be blamed for someone elses deeds. It's impossible. You are not responsible, because you don't have the POWER to control what someone else does.

Religion has nothing to do with judging your mother honey. Only God can do that.

But I suppose if you want to, go ahead.

Don't you think it's time tho to get rid of some of this hatred? It's only hurting YOU? When we despise and hate another person, they are pretty much oblivious to the degree that we despise them. They just go on their happy way, and live their life while we are sickened with our hatred!

Our life is ruined by our hatred of that person, because we can't think of anything else! Is that person WORTHY OF OUR TIME??? NO. Should that person live RENT FREE in our head? NO Get rid of them!

You CAN have a life worth living if you want it. It's yours for the taking. That's what God intended for you -- granted, your Mother made it miserable for you iin the beginning, but NOW you can take your life BACK from her. Now you can live it as YOU see fit!

How about thinking of some therapy? Maybe? Get some help. When I was at my worst, I called a therapist and got an appointment and I was so glad I did. How about you?

I wish you the very best Bathony. Please keep posting too. Hugs, Lee