The following statements annoy me when it concerns rejecting sex:

“You are not getting any”
“He or she did not get any”
“You are not getting any if….”
“She did not give it up…”

Based on my understanding, the people who utter such statements in relationships give the perception that sex is either a reward or favor to give to their special someone. If I ever heard such a thing uttered by my girlfriend, I would wonder if she really found me desirable. When you engage in sex in a serious relationship, you expect the person whom you are having sex with to enjoy the sex as much as you do. I am sure many of you will assert that I am reading into things but I just don’t get how this statement is uttered by wives, husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends who claim to believe in respectful relationships. Should these things bother anyone especially me? If I have an incorrect view of this, please explain how my view is flawed.