I was speaking Norwegian in a dream just now, after two pills of Melatonin. I mean, I was speaking German but trying to alter it to make it Norwegian. It was really vivid... Unfortunately, a phone call woke me up... Infrequently, but I do get those very vivid dreams. If you like dreaming, I would not worry.

Unfortunately, I have no words of wisdom in regards to your mother. Speaking up is a risk. Is it worth taking? I do not know.