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Originally Posted by granite1
at the very least she will be disappointed in me and i don't want to deal with that either.i swear i have got to be the stupidest person in the world because i am considering dumping her instead of feeling the things i am feeling.because i am so convinced she hates me and doesn't care at all.but at the same time i think i am convincing myself of this because i couldn't handle the she did care and i could trust her .I'm just a total nut case i know this
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I do not believe the therapist will be disappointed in you. The earlier reason for not having email, letters, etc was because you were using them in place of talking to her (if I have this wrong - sorry then I am totally off base here)- this email was not as a substitute for talking. As long as you are willing to go in and talk to her I doubt it will be a problem.
Tell her you don't think you can handle her caring and trusting her - she is not going to punish you or hate your or be disappointed. Clients do not move forward linearly.