Ur mother sounds like my mother. The woman is a person who can put me down with few words. My mother is someone I have eliminated from my life. I simply told her I do not need the negatiity nor will I have it around my children. She still goes around to everyone with her sob story that she is dead to me blah blah...
It may sound cold hearted of me but my mother is CLEARLY bipolar and manipulative as all get out. I mean really who smacks their child across the face and calls them a liar and kicks them out on the streets at 12 over me telling her that her husband was coming into my room at night unwelcomed!!! You do what is best for YOU!! Someone who is going to make you feel WORSE about something out of your control is unhealthy and definetly NOT what you need right now.