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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
That certainly is a difficult situation to swallow. I hope you are able to address this with your T and try to work through it. I'd imagine that it would be unhealthy for you to struggle with keeping it from her, unless you can miraculously somehow compartmentalize it in a healthy way - not sure that's even possible.
Such a difficult position to be in. I can imagine how grueling this must be for you. (( HUGS ))
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As far as adultery goes, I try not to judge. It's difficult, though, I realize, when you've been affected in that way. I was in an unhealthy marriage for nearly 15 years but never cheated. My husband, on the other hand, tried to sleep with one of my close friends while we were married, lied often and may have even cheated on me - all while helping to make my life miserable. I should probably be more angry than I am....perhaps I'm still in some form of denial.  |
Mixed emotions, I am sorry you had such a hard time with your husband, it's a hard pill to swallow! I went through the denial stage took me a whole year to accept she had an affair and to deal with all the anger that went with it! Maybe you will wake up one day and see that everything happens for a reason, it doesn't make it any easier or less painful but it makes sense sometimes!