i feel for you mate. i often feel like that, it makes you question why to try and help people if thats the response you get,

ive experienced this numerous times, one time i remember, about 2 years ago. i was talking to a friend of mine who was 15 at the time, i was 16/17 and she was getting badly bullied at school and didnt know what to do about it. so i thought it would help if i contacted her school as she was too scared to and i spoke to them about it. and what happened? they accused me of being a peodaphile and she stopped talking to me, i got some nasty threats from the school too (they were threatening to contact the police etc) and all i did was make them aware of her bullying. you can imagine how gut-wrenching that was for me. i was thinking "im no peodaphile, i was only being a friend". me and her havent spoken since.

in response to the actions of your neighbour, what i would do in that situation is to contact the police and show them the vandalism and tell them what shes doing to you, it can be classed as harrasment and she could get done for that.

try not to let it get you down, without helpful people like you and i this world wouldnt go round. your more appreciated than you think you are, people might not tell you but you are. it can be a cruel world, and people usually doubt someones motive if they are nice, but the thing to do is grit your teeth and carry on. you are better than these "bad" people, that shows alot too.

take care and stay safe.