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I was in a very similar situation with my T and as I'd been going to the same T for a couple of years - i felt like i had no choice but to bring up what i had heard. I didn't go into detail and just explained that i had found something out and i felt it had to be out in the open if i was to continue.
My T said i could ask anything I wanted regarding the situation - i didn't want to know anything further so said it wasn't necessary.
I couldn't pass judgement because I had only heard one side of the story and we all have pasts which we learn from.
My T checked in a couple of times with me after to make sure I was alright about everything and has always left it open for discussion.
It took a massive weight off my shoulders and we made the decision together whether we both felt we could continue, but my T never asked what I had heard, or who had told me - she was more focused on me and how it had affected me. I would highly recommend discussing it - it shouldn't be a burden that you have to carry.
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